as revengeful creatures, we human beings often try to give an eye for an eye to people when we feel being treated unfairly or when we are annoyed by their actions. after getting back at them and sucessfully spiting them, we will feel better for a short moment. but at the end of the day, the question is, has the issue really been solved? after letting them understand how it feels to be treated the way they treat us, so what? nothing is going to change and it just makes us seem petty and childish.
sometimes, the person you're angry with might not even know you are and all that effort and energy put into being angry will not be 'appreciated'. so in the end, you will end up getting more pissed and the person you are pissed with will just happily carry on with his life. so what for get so angry? afterall, what we are trying to do is to make a point to them that we are pissed.
as quoted from nat:
Why in the world would you want to hurt someone whom is dear
to you? They might
not even be around tomorrow. Nor you.
Time is
very precious. And we're
running out of it - every day, every hour, every
minute. This very second.
Some things are not worth holding on to. Anger
is one of them.
Sometimes, the person you're angry with might not even know
it. So all that
effort and energy put into being angry only puts a toll on
your body. For what?
It's too troublesome.
If you have to make a
point, and it's someone you
love, then Trust that there's enough Love for
you to put that point across, and
for them to receive it. Just be sure to do
it only when the anger has subsided.
Have you let go of your Anger
today?
I have.
